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[euigorwithyou]

Everyone wants to be happy. If you ask anybody what choice you are going to make: to be happy or unhappy, the answer will be obvious. Nevertheless, there are so many unhappy people. So, what is the problem? The problem is that most of people think that they will be happy in the future. They don’t admit the thought of being happy under the existing, present circumstances. For example, you have no money. But there is a poor family, who invites you to have a lunch with them consisting just of rice and tea. The lunch lasts twenty minutes. Make those twenty minutes the most enjoyable moment of your life. Concentrate on the thought, that tomorrow you will have another twenty minutes of enjoyment with the same family and the same lunch.. The key is to focus on the happy moments of your life.

So, the secret of being happy is to choose to be happy now, in the present. You must find the way to be happy now, because it’s impossible to be happy yesterday or tomorrow.

[Steven]

You're right. Actually it all comes from the phrase "Everything is gonna be alright", when it won't. We have to live with the moment and enjoy what we have, nevertheless, we have to dare for more.

[M.Helen]

actually when one says that everything will be OK, it happens the contrary. You can't say it, unless you know exactly that your efforts will represent a piece of yourself. Negative things happen every day, in order that they stop, circumstances need our attention.

[Peach]

there is no key to happiness! Is happy in every way, and in some circustante! happiness to someone's food, to drink in another, family, work etc! is wrong to say "live the moment / day" with this motto because today you can be happy and life-ferrous because because you have not thought of the day tomorrow you get what you get

[Laurentine]

you can not always choose to be happy ... sometimes your fate does not offer this option at one time and somewhere in the future! Therefore the best would be to enjoy happiness when is offering to us and not think that tomorrow we will have time to do

[Nathan]

be careful what you wish, cause you might get it ...

[Laurentine]

be careful what you wish, cause you might get it ...

then I wish all goodness in the world, much love, big family, money, luck, long life, career, a loving and caring husband, friends, ideal mother-in-low, peace and respect among people etc

[hellodear]

ooooooooooh)))) i think person should become happy once end for ever. i think, happines is the state of the soul when person take everything from life every moment he lives. it asks some strength, permanently desire to live, to wish a new day, new smile, good weather in your soul and in the soul of the clothest people

[Laurentine]

ooooooooooh)))) i think person should become happy once end for ever. i think, happines is the state of the soul when person take everything from life every moment he lives. it asks some strength, permanently desire to live, to wish a new day, new smile, good weather in your soul and in the soul of the clothest people

Yes....you right...everything depends on us...on what road we manage our lifes in that way must find the happines, cause life and happines are going together....and if we do not see her is our fault.

[Peach]

How nice sound your words. But I fear that happiness is like gold, stay away from people, and when they found the man lost control and not know what to do with him ,than keep him as only for itself. Happiness is real when is shared with others. Man can not be happy alone.

[Benn]

happiness is something abstract, without a precise definition. Man always wants to be happy, but he seek happiness where it is not. And even if finds it is not able to keep it around him.

[Riser]

to want to be happy, you need to know primarily what you want out of life ,need to know how to live life so as to feel the happiness of living. I pray to be happy and I can share with my happiness with others. Happiness is always near us, not seek happiness you just have learn to read without the words. happiness is always in our hands but depends on how to keep happiness.

[Barbara]

to want to be happy, you need to know primarily what you want out of life ,need to know how to live life so as to feel the happiness of living. I pray to be happy and I can share with my happiness with others. Happiness is always near us, not seek happiness you just have learn to read without the words. happiness is always in our hands but depends on how to keep happiness.

I agree.
Under normal situations, because you can not forget those who have serious problems, I think the curiosity about oneself is usually the best guarantee for creating the conditions for happiness, for they know their potential can express themselves and reach out to others.

[tryingtomakeadiff]

I am a strong believer in the power of positive thinking.
I have taught myself to select positive thoughts when faced with a negative situation. I make a conscious choice to be happy, but it takes effort. I guess a lot of people find it easier to be unhappy!
Thanks