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[Faw_Peter]

Family relationship: the conflict between generations, communication between parents and teens!!!
The conflict between generations has always existed, though never has reached so high levels as nowadays. Is it the fault of the society which is in a continuous transformation, to be the concepts of teenagers or parents? The fact is that we are witnessing to a split between generations that affects the family relationship. Hear cases in which teenagers, because lack of communication with family, recourse to unexplained gestures. Be this a hopeless situation?

[Faw_Peter]

Drugs, prostitution, abortion, juvenile delinquency, early school leaving are consequential results of the society we live. All over the media information occur about the cruel realities of life and seemingly the most difficult thing is to be a parent. Feelings of fear, fear, restlessness, flood your soul and you try to do everything is possible to protect your child. We do not know exactly how teenagers are aware of the danger that lurks them, but parents, seeing all this becomes very protective, strict and even harsh with their children.

[Faw_Peter]

The temptation is great, the freedom also, and the young, confused and lacking of the benchmarks, are falling easily into the traps of that environment. Conflict between generations is the result of different views and concepts. Some believe that he springs from parents experience as opposed to lack of experience of adolescents. Is it only about this? Lest these differences of opinion are based on lack of family communication and distrust in their baby?

[Faw_Peter]

The english writer George Orwell said that "Each generation imagines that is smarter than previous generation and wiser than the next generation." Young people of all generations have had always a tendency to stand out by clothing, vocabulary, music. And in all times their behavior was criticized and commented. If the man would change, would stop the progress of evolution. Each generation has her problems, aspirations and desires.

[Faw_Peter]

Solutions always exist, all you need to do is to find and apply them. In this case, requires that the solution found to be accepted by both sides, parents and teens. Each party to give a little from their beliefs. Parents to be more lenient and tolerant, and young people more cooperative and aware that their parents want only good for them. All we, aim to improve the family communication and to avoid conflicts of any kind.

[Faw_Peter]

How to get closer to your son and make him to understand that everything around him is not only "goods" but and dangerous? - are wondering parents. It is not so hard. Enter into their world, become concerned about their preoccupations and aspirations, encouraging and making him trust in himself. So you will manage to win his trust and you will be able to guide him from "the shadow" to the good things.

[Faw_Peter]

How to do the parents your friends? Earned their trust! Prove that you're mature and responsible and you know you do. This takes time and effort and, the trust one's was won must be maintained. This is the one of mined land of teenagers, who instead to tell the truth to the parents, try to invent all sorts of lies that sooner or later will all come up.

[Faw_Peter]

The conflict between generations exist! It is triggered between teens who want to take on a wrong way and, parents involved to show the right track. The punishment doesn't bring respect and good communication in families, that's why is required the maturity, the tact and the experience of adults, to reduce significantly this situation.
Being a parent is the most precious feeling which man can live along his existence. Family relationships becomes more solid if are based on a sincere and long lasting communication. Learn to decrease conflicts between generations for living a peaceful life.