Hi Big_Becka!
My perspective comes from living here almost all of my life. I can't honestly
say that I'm anti-American, since I have made a life here, and it can always
be worse elsewhere. But that can be true anywhere in the world.
I think I was just shocked, as I started looking into, and understanding, the
path that Europe was starting to walk down. In the beginnings of our "Union",
the States agreed to give some limited powers to the central government. The
States, in turn, would help support and guide the central government. If the State
found itself being pushed into something that was against it's fundamental
principals, it could walk away. This is where the EU stands at this moment, to
my way of seeing it.
But a funny thing happened. As the "Union" grew more powerful, the "Union"
decided it was more important than the States it served. It's logic was pretty
good. "If a State can secede ( leave ) the Union every time it disagrees, then
we have no real Union." So, in the case of the American Civil War, even though
slavery was the spark that started the war, the fundamental reason to attack the
southern States and bring them back into the Union, was to show that the Union
was more powerful, and important, than the States it used to serve. When that
war was successful for the Union, it placed the power of the Union forever over
the States. Like I said, for America it was the issue of slavery that was the spark,
but it could have just as easily been philosophical, political, religious, or
constitutional issues that forced a confrontation. But sooner or later, that
confrontation takes place, when two groups are fighting for the same power.
Replace the word "States" with "Countries", and I think you see my worry...
Actually, maybe you could answer me a question... When did the "European
Community" become the "European Union"? I thought the Treaty of Lisbon
was the document that was supposed to make all countries give up their
national rights to the EU, and change all references of the word "Community"
to "Union". If I remember right, there were countries that voted "No" on the
Treaty of Lisbon, making it null and void ( at the moment, anyway ). So what
gives them the right to call themselves the "European Union", instead of the
"European Community"? Or is it just some public relations stunt from the
EU, just say "European Union" often enough and it will be true?
Anyway, like I said... the USA has gone from States supporting and directing
the federal government, to states begging for our monthly handout ( which we
can get only if we pass our state laws to match Fed laws ).
Identity. Yes, we're Americans, but don't walk into Texas and call a Texan a
Virginian, or into Virginia and call them Californians, unless you want some
funny looks, or maybe some not so nice things said back.
USA compared to Germany. Hmm, hard to say... both are beautiful countries
and have wonderful people, for the most part. I've had a nasty comment or two
said to me by a German national thinking I was just American, but most have
been very friendly and helpful to me. I've also heard a comment or two about
Germans or Germany made here in the USA, but it's mostly positive things I
hear. Every country has it's share of disgruntled individuals.
Americans are kind of wide-eyed at the tax rates in Germany, and all the social
programs funded by those taxes. And I think Germans tend to shake their heads
at what they see as no social programs to give everyone an equal chance in
America. Americans go for small government and people looking out for people,
I think. And it looks like Germans trust their government more than we do ours,
to do the right things, and to help others.
Finally, yes, I would love to live in Germany. I've had several yard sales to clean
out my house. I've sold my vehicle. I've sorted through my few things to take
with me and/or ship. Now all I have to do is put my house on the market. I even
have family in Germany to help me get started. I can't speak the language worth
a damn

, so that will be highest priority at first. But I just can't pass up
a chance to live and see another part of the world, and learn it's culture. And I
would like to do it before I get too old to try it...
Thanks for the welcome. Look forward to seeing you in the forums!