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[Terry]

My wife has just left the country. She uses to travel on business trips. My problem is that she travels too much, and we have not enough time to see each other and make whatever a couple needs to do…
When I married her, I wasn’t hoping to have such a life. Help me people, should I divorce her?

[sara]

hi its your right to divorce her since she doesnt do her duty as a wife,but first talk to her about your problems with her.

[clearman]

sara, you are right. If doesn't work anymore, terry, don't loose your time waiting for a miracle...the life goes on!

[Terry]

but I have feelings for her. If I divorce, I will have to get drunk for 2 months so that I forget her

[N.XEE]

no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u shudnt divorce her relationz r not made to b broken just for simple reasons or on small things especially whn it cumz to the realtion of husband n wife its the most beautiful relatio of this world u shud talk to her to manage between her job n home but plz dont think to divorce!!!!!! it aint that much easy to make relations n to get loved ones....as the above person has replied that life goes on.... but i believe life goes on but with regrets when we end up relations one shud try to adjust n communicate with their partner!!!!!1

[LION]

Terry,you should discuss with her,talk about what you feel and think about you marriage,and try together to find a solution to this problem.
if you wife is not ready or is not willing to do so,then you should definetely divorce

[Terry]

no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u shudnt divorce her relationz r not made to b broken just for simple reasons or on small things especially whn it cumz to the realtion of husband n wife its the most beautiful relatio of this world u shud talk to her to manage between her job n home but plz dont think to divorce!!!!!! it aint that much easy to make relations n to get loved ones....as the above person has replied that life goes on.... but i believe life goes on but with regrets when we end up relations one shud try to adjust n communicate with their partner!!!!!1

thank you n.xee, but these are not exactly simple reasons, it is quite serious.
You know I talked to her today, she said she loves me, but she has to work and there are a lot of business trips left to do...

[N.XEE]

dear terry if she loves u thn their is no point of leavin her no???? if she is left wid few bussiness trips they wud soon end up n u guys wud have a gud family tym together its better to wait for her to finish her work n make her feel how much you love her than to leave her n get drunk n runi the life of both of you ........ its way tooooooooo hard to find right person in your life these days who also loves you in return so better to never let go!!!!!!!!!!!! this tym will pass on n she'd alwayz remember this in her life that u were standin beside her even whn she was damn busy wid her life ...man dont knw women when they love once they do it for allllllll life ..

[Terry]

but you're wrong, her business trip are not going to end soon. She is just at the beginning of her career!

[clearman]

If she loves her career first........in this case I dont see you like a normal family (with kids) in next 10 years.
Talk with her, man!

[Benn]

that is why it is better to find a traditional wife, cooking at the kitchen, caring the house etc. than one who has its business!

[Faw_Peter]

I would never marry a girl who's in permanent business. I mean I wanna be the "man" in the house. Consider me old-fashioned

[Karl.in.eu]

but you're wrong, her business trip are not going to end soon. She is just at the beginning of her career!

What kind of job is that anyway? A pilot?

[Terry]

she's working as the main foreign representative in a Marketing Research group. That's why she always has to travel and make presentations for the group in different countries. My God, I stopped counting how many countries she's visited, but I think it's over 30...