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[Terry]

Have you ever thought that reading correctly a person's gestures can give you more information than his words...

As it is known, during the dating, men and ladies are using an entire arsenal of gestures. Some of them are outright, others, on the contrary, are misterious and hidden from others' eyes. The most of gestures are made unconsciously.
Any person's success in his love life with their opposite sex depends on his skills to direct signals of attention and to correctly identify the signals given to him. Ladies are very sensitive against these body gestures.Men, on the contrary, are less sensitive,they sometimes see nothing.

Gestures and signals used by men for attracting women

Often it's quite unconsciously and pure automatically a man begins to "spruce up" when he sees a nice lady. He straightens his back, the baggy skin below the eyes disappear, the belly is drawn inside, shoulders are widening, a little sport gait appears. Moreover, he does the following: combs his hair, arrange the tie etc. This is made for looking better.

Gestures and signs used by women for attracting men

Ladies use the following:
- Hair shaking Women are usually doing it by shaking her hair with hands. Some girls do this gesture slowly and sexy. If the hair is indeed beautiful, why not?
-Pointing out her wrist The wrist area is considered to be one of the most sensitive erogenic zone. When a woman is interested in a man, she will keep showing her wrist. For smoking women this is a very easy to use gesture.
- Standing her legs apart A woman stands her legs apart when she talks to an interesting for her man. Regardless of whether she sits or stands.
- Wiggle her hips When a woman does that somehow specifically, she plays them by pointing out her "treasures" this means she likes the man standing near or next to her.
- Look askance Women often look at men as if they stole something from him. If a man notices this look, he may get excited very quickly.
- Striking an object Usually these are cylindrical objects.

[M.Helen]

an advice for women: if you watched the movie "Legal blond" then you probably know this trick. In front of a man you should drop something down (example - a pencil) and then bent swiftly to pick it up. It works and attracts men! Try it

[Steven]

for girls:
If you see a man in front of you: setting the tie straight, pulling down his jumper/coat, sleeking his hair - be sure you have a potential admirer in front of you

[Benn]

Follow the woman's legs. A woman will always a little bit move apart her legs if she feels interest in man. This is inside their consciousness. And it doesn't matter whether she sits or stays.

[Terry]

If the girl starts playing with her hair, this means she wants you. Especially if she does it slowly, this is a direct sign. If she does it quickly, she just wants you to pay attention to her.

[Nathan]

for women: when a man shakes his hand with you, pay attention to the angle of his palm. Thus, if the palm turns up when shaking hands, this means he's all yours and he's ready to give many things for you. If he holds both hands, it's a sign of his respect against you.

[Riser]

If the girl specifically bobs her bot in front of several men, know it - you're looking at a seductress. If she considers it necessary, she'll make you go crazy.

[Terry]

I'm often seduced by a girl's voice. It can make wonders, no joke. It happened that I almost fall in love when a strange girl called me by mistake. I didn't know her, but she managed to seduce me and we met... unfortunately the exterior look wasn't as good as the voice.

[Laurentine]

If a girl put her leg under the other one, like this


know, you're doing well, she likes you and feels free to talk.

[Big_Becka]

I'm often seduced by a girl's voice. It can make wonders, no joke. It happened that I almost fall in love when a strange girl called me by mistake. I didn't know her, but she managed to seduce me and we met... unfortunately the exterior look wasn't as good as the voice.

This is true! This is why young ladies are encouraged to have elocution lessons: when you become old and fat, you will still have a beautiful voice!

[Riser]

I'm often seduced by a girl's voice. It can make wonders, no joke. It happened that I almost fall in love when a strange girl called me by mistake. I didn't know her, but she managed to seduce me and we met... unfortunately the exterior look wasn't as good as the voice.

This is true! This is why young ladies are encouraged to have elocution lessons: when you become old and fat, you will still have a beautiful voice!

Really? Are there any elocution lessons organized for ladies particularly for this purpose? I never thought about it, but it is true that voices rarely coincide with appearance. I'll be more careful in the future.
Have you thought of attending such lessons?

[Big_Becka]

Really? Are there any elocution lessons organized for ladies particularly for this purpose? I never thought about it, but it is true that voices rarely coincide with appearance. I'll be more careful in the future.
Have you thought of attending such lessons?

If a girl attends a ladies' college or finishing school, she will probably have elocution lessons. Otherwise, some of my school friends had private elocution lessons after school. And there are finishing courses run by some colleges for adults (including etiquette and deportement). I never had any lessons, and I speak with quite a strong dialect sometimes... I love my westcountry accent, but I think it holds me back at work sometimes so perhaps it is time?

[tricker]

Really? Are there any elocution lessons organized for ladies particularly for this purpose? I never thought about it, but it is true that voices rarely coincide with appearance. I'll be more careful in the future.
Have you thought of attending such lessons?

If a girl attends a ladies' college or finishing school, she will probably have elocution lessons. Otherwise, some of my school friends had private elocution lessons after school. And there are finishing courses run by some colleges for adults (including etiquette and deportement). I never had any lessons, and I speak with quite a strong dialect sometimes... I love my westcountry accent, but I think it holds me back at work sometimes so perhaps it is time?

Be careful, if you attend those lessons you might become a "maneater" by seducing every man with your voice and accent. Also these lessons probably are attended by phone operators, who are obliged to have a pleasant voice.

[Peach]

Regardless of where you are, you should watch carefully the girl you are talking to. You may feel how their blood flows faster, inflating her intimate body parts. Lips are not an exception, they become bigger and if you kiss her, you’ll notice their warmth.

[Peach]

Everybody must understand that their body has an original smell. I’m not talking about perfumes. I refer to the smell every body apart is emitting. Scientists named this smell “pheromones”. It is believed that these pheromones awake sexual desire in the opposite sex.

[Peach]

I’ll give you an advice basing on the movies I saw. In order that men “pick up” women, they should stay in front of her (when discussing), holding their hands on the neck, maintaining feet apart. It works in real life as well. Pheromone emission is also involved here, as it is believed they come out (including) from intimate body parts.

[Peach]

By continuing the topic of pheromones, it should be emphasized that female pheromones (also known as capulini) are much stronger than the male’s ones. Well… you don’t need to be too smart to understand what you should do for spreading these pheromones all over your body? I’ll give you a hint, recall where pheromones come from.

[Peach]

Trust your first kiss. Many ladies use the first kiss for “verifying” whether their partner fit them or not. Others use the first kiss for passing a test: if there is no warmth in belly, then there are no feelings, and the outcome is – stay friends.

[Peach]

The kiss should be memorable. Start kissing with mouth closed, with a delicate and easy touch. Keep kissing more passionately, then open half your mouth and let saliva exchange. This is where partners “warm up” before the great “show”

[Peach]

Do you like reading? If yes, then it’s not enough reading books and newspaper. Learn reading your partner’s lips. Kisses are like books. For example, if your partner kisses fast, you may conclude that he is very “hungry for love” and certainly didn’t make love for already a very long time. And vice-versa, if your partner is slow, then it’s quite possible he/she has a lover already.

[Peach]

You should behave flexibly. Not the situations must be adjusted to you, you are the one obliged to adjust to various situation. Thus, your brain must work out the ability of making decisions fast. One lady/men may like one gesture, others may not.

[Peach]

In all cases the first contact with an unknown person must be open. I mean we should show open attitude in “cooperating”, communicating with people. Later, after exchanging between ourselves a few words, we should show the same what we get: positive if they express, and negative if they are rude.

[Steven]

Art of seduction: learn how to conquer the woman you want!
Certainly you have asked many times, walking on the streets, what is searching that woman-angel at arm with that man, who doesn't seems neither charming, nor financially potent, nor of a brilliant intelligence. You often wonder why luck elude you, why the women bypass, why you can not find your half, which are the seducer secrets. It is about confidence, the art of conversation, sense of humor, or ...?

[Steven]

Excessive shyness is often the cause of solitude, both for men and for women. One of the secrets, is the seducer art conversation: the more you are more sociable, more communicative and more daring, the more easier you will seduce. Women likes men who displays confidence, that inspires masculinity, power. Most women expect the men to take initiative, to make the first step in a relationship or even in a simple conversation.

[Steven]

Women should be seduced not only by a flawless look, but also by being open, intelligent and with the sense of humor developed. Seek to be original and to show that you control the situation. And last but not least, you should not be afraid of failure. If you were rejected by a woman, it doesn't means that you do not have enough quality to seduce another. One of the stages of learning the seduction is to accept the failure.