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[zhyro_07]

i have a girl where i meet 1 years ago. and i saw dat i'm Fallen 4 her. nd' now shes my girlfriend. but i meet again a new girl,,desame with the other,,i have a feeling for her..can you give me an advice

[Faw_Peter]

if you're young and you're dating with your girlfriend for already a year, it might get you bored. So it's normal that you liked another girl. Can you try loving both simultaneously?

[M.Helen]

Don't give him stupid advices. One can truly love only one girl. The second one is just an illusion of love.

[willyoumind]

Well, if you don't want to be labelled as those lovers that always love to betray their loving one, then you should keeps yourself away from any distractions or seductions...

[Karl.in.eu]

Peter is right. When you're young, you like to experiment new changes. You shouldn't feel guilty. However if you have serious intentions and commitments with the first one, then you might revise your decision.
Anyway, try to solve this situation with both girls in as polite way as possible.

Good luck to you!

[Terry]

If I were you, I would firstly be careful! Remember - when you want both, you can lose both

[Peach]

if you're young and you're dating with your girlfriend for already a year, it might get you bored. So it's normal that you liked another girl. Can you try loving both simultaneously?

how you can meet with a person a year and get bored in a day? means that the feelings towards her are false. Only a man can have so silly thoughts..

[FreeThinker]

It's most probably infatuation than love. Like Peter said it's normal to go through such phases when you are young. Right now, you probably are experimenting with your feelings towards people of opposite sex and will eventually figure out what love is. Love has one important component called commitment. When you see through that, you'll stick to your love, hopefully forever.
So there's nothing wrong if you are switching girl friends. Just make sure that you aren't caught between the two and that you are not spending away all your savings on the girls

[hellodear]

Ithink a search of real love is a normal thing.If you have some feelings that can be called love, try to wait and become sure of it

[Laurentine]

Depends on how much you love your girlfriend and how quickly and often you usually fall in love. For me it does not matter the time we was together but the feelings I have for him... Destiny usually try our luck. For half a year I'm dating with a man ... I love him very much; a month ago by chance I met with my former friend, a blind love ; we started to communicate very often, he calls me almost every day, and even proposed me to try it again to be together, almost persuaded me but when I saw the man next to me I understood that he is in the past and there should remain.... I want to thank' s him for that, for showing me how lucky I am...

[Lorry]

Very interesting and frequent situation..
First of all if you have serious intentions on the future, you should be sure that the girl of your dreams first of all should love you, understand you and you should feel happy when she is near you. You should understand in your mind what girl of that two correspond these criterion. Just listen your heart and you will make the best decision.