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[solanki]

hii guys!i am from india .i am 19 years old i love a gal , i mean i really love her and she too does
see i always usd to thnk tat wen two people love each other then there really is no peason for them to worry in life
but here is a prob
in my house i hv almost gvn all clues to my parents tat i luv her and also shown her and my parents r more than happy
but d real problem is in her house she is damn really scard tat her parents wnt agree for an intercast marriage and she has askd mee to help her in tat
i too dnt knw wat i cn doo tell me if i really need to wait for smtime till we finish our studies o
JUST LET ME KNW WAT I CN DO PLZZZZZZZ

[Faw_Peter]

Why would her parents not agree? Because you are a student? Yes, maybe.
But think for yourself - do you wanna get married at this age? You are very young

[Terry]

you can combine both things - strudying and loving. Why not? Don't hesitate, just meet her parents and tell them the whole story

[Faw_Peter]

Is it a tradition or something in India to get marry early? Probably this is also the reason why its population is so big

[sara]

ur too young to marry wait for at least 6 years then decide and at that time ur more mature and iam sure her parents wont refuse u.good luck

[M.Helen]

In six years he might refuse her parents, while her parents can like him! But it'll be too late, he has to dare to do it now

[Rindha]

It dosent matter abt ur' age dear... if u luv her truly don't get scared to tok with her parents... jst tell them the truth, u can do it... but olso hav to think a lot abt ur' studies as well. wish u all the best,

[Benn]

yeah everybody is good in giving advices! But, Rindha, would you, as a girl, marry at the age of, let's say, 16 (if you really loved somebody)? I don't think so, empty words

[M.Helen]

For India, the age of 16 for a girl to marry must be OK. People there marry early and use to have many children