Age Difference In Love

age difference in love

Postby Laurentine » 16 Aug 2009, 12:23

Nobody is wonder if a woman meets a man much older, even if Share a love without limits for the youngest one. As society adjusts need to change how we approach.However it is better to avoid such love incidents or to let us follow the wave?
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Re: age difference in love

Postby FreeThinker » 16 Aug 2009, 14:31

As long as there is an understanding and a long lasting commitment between the couple, age difference should not matter much in my opinion. I wouldn't think much about the society as this is a personal choice and none of anybody else's issue.
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Re: age difference in love

Postby Peach » 16 Aug 2009, 22:58

are people who can not understand with those of their age or close to it. they are more advanced mentally and to have around the same age people are bored. so for more than 10-15 years is something normal and welcome.
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Re: age difference in love

Postby FreeThinker » 16 Aug 2009, 23:56

Some people are more mature than their age. So whatever floats your boat
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Re: age difference in love

Postby hellodear » 17 Aug 2009, 14:10

Age difference in love is a very difficult problem for aftersoviet public. Our brain has not yet become so independent and free to give this category of couples to live in comprehension with society.
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Re: age difference in love

Postby tricker » 18 Aug 2009, 18:22

in love and war anything is allowed, and the age difference is part of "any". :)
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Re: age difference in love

Postby Laurentine » 20 Aug 2009, 19:08

hellodear wrote:Age difference in love is a very difficult problem for aftersoviet public. Our brain has not yet become so independent and free to give this category of couples to live in comprehension with society.


this is not true. my grandmother very well accommodate to our time,she even togays relationship has nothing. As she says "It's your life do you want with it"
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Re: age difference in love

Postby Peach » 21 Aug 2009, 22:27

tricker wrote:in love and war anything is allowed, and the age difference is part of "any". :)


Yes it is a part of it. Is part of everyday life because love has no borders and no limits not between genders and not in age
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Re: age difference in love

Postby Big_Becka » 23 Aug 2009, 10:27

hellodear wrote:Age difference in love is a very difficult problem for aftersoviet public. Our brain has not yet become so independent and free to give this category of couples to live in comprehension with society.

Why is this? Were relationships regulated? :shock:

I see nothing wrong with age differences of around ten years. But when a teenage girl marries a man who is nearly 60... Then they must accept that she will be a widow before she is old ;-)
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Re: age difference in love

Postby Faw_Peter » 24 Aug 2009, 12:03

Big_Becka wrote: Then they must accept that she will be a widow before she is old ;-)


these girly are rather the safes mistress, money spender, and future heir of pretty sums :haha :haha :haha
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Re: age difference in love

Postby FreeThinker » 25 Aug 2009, 05:50

Faw_Peter wrote:
Big_Becka wrote: Then they must accept that she will be a widow before she is old ;-)


these girly are rather the safes mistress, money spender, and future heir of pretty sums :haha :haha :haha


Is there a similar option for men too? .. . Misterers or something :P
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Re: age difference in love

Postby M.Helen » 25 Aug 2009, 13:23

FreeThinker wrote:Is there a similar option for men too? .. . Misterers or something :P


Yes, to find an old lady and to marry her... :mdr
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Re: age difference in love

Postby FreeThinker » 25 Aug 2009, 18:59

M.Helen wrote:
FreeThinker wrote:Is there a similar option for men too? .. . Misterers or something :P


Yes, to find an old lady and to marry her... :mdr


She has be very rich too :D
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Re: age difference in love

Postby Nathan » 26 Aug 2009, 10:53

M.Helen wrote:
FreeThinker wrote:Is there a similar option for men too? .. . Misterers or something :P


Yes, to find an old lady and to marry her... :mdr


or find a lady who's old husband had died and do your best to become her lover :-P Good luck :super
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Re: age difference in love

Postby FreeThinker » 28 Aug 2009, 01:23

Nathan wrote:
M.Helen wrote:
FreeThinker wrote:Is there a similar option for men too? .. . Misterers or something :P


Yes, to find an old lady and to marry her... :mdr


or find a lady who's old husband had died and do your best to become her lover :-P Good luck :super


what if she is a witch who killed her old husband for money? I dont want to be the next.. lol
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Re: age difference in love

Postby Steven » 28 Aug 2009, 20:53

FreeThinker wrote:
what if she is a witch who killed her old husband for money? I dont want to be the next.. lol


Who do not risk, that does not drink champagne!!!!! ;-)
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Re: age difference in love

Postby 55° N - 13° E » 31 Aug 2009, 18:06

Laurentine wrote:... it is better to avoid such love incidents or to let us follow the wave?

The wave as "trend" ...... or the wave of personal "romance"?
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Re: age difference in love

Postby Laurentine » 31 Aug 2009, 20:56

55° N - 13° E wrote:
Laurentine wrote:... it is better to avoid such love incidents or to let us follow the wave?

The wave as "trend" ...... or the wave of personal "romance"?

the second part of your question... the wave of personal "romance" :)
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Re: age difference in love

Postby 55° N - 13° E » 01 Sep 2009, 06:47

Laurentine wrote:the second part of your question... the wave of personal "romance" :)

Ah. The wave of romance! Yes, " ... let us follow the wave." :love
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Re: age difference in love

Postby Laurentine » 04 Sep 2009, 20:04

55° N - 13° E wrote:
Laurentine wrote:the second part of your question... the wave of personal "romance" :)

Ah. The wave of romance! Yes, " ... let us follow the wave." :love


and you could love a woman older than you?
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Re: age difference in love

Postby 55° N - 13° E » 05 Sep 2009, 15:45

Laurentine wrote:
55° N - 13° E wrote:
Laurentine wrote:the second part of your question... the wave of personal "romance" :)

Ah. The wave of romance! Yes, " ... let us follow the wave." :love


and you could love a woman older than you?

Yes, of course. I have dated women older than me. The age is not a problem for me and anyway I am 22 years older than my wife. The only problem is that I will probably be dead when our son is still rather young. But I hope that I will live a long life because I love my wife and my son very much. :ange
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Re: age difference in love

Postby Peach » 06 Sep 2009, 13:31

Yes, of course. I have dated women older than me. The age is not a problem for me and anyway I am 22 years older than my wife. The only problem is that I will probably be dead when our son is still rather young. But I hope that I will live a long life because I love my wife and my son very much.


how nice :ange I like your optimist... and I believe it will be so, cause the medicine evolves and we will be able to live longer :)
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Re: age difference in love

Postby M.Helen » 24 Sep 2009, 17:21

When does age difference becomes obvious and how can it be eliminated?
Different view ...
Different generations often have different views. Although there could be common interests, or other long-term objectives this type of conflict can occur in seemingly minor things, which is simply - in the lifestyle. For example, the youngest partner likes night clubs, non-stop fun and a lot more noise, but the other may seek quiet places. Once communication is not made in time then this can lead to more serious problems. The most important thing to remember is that each parter should know what the other wants and shouldn't try to get only what he wants. :nonnon
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Re: age difference in love

Postby M.Helen » 24 Sep 2009, 17:23

Feelings of being useless

An older person may start feeling a discomfort regarding his physical aspect sooner then the younger partner, and that is something natural. But on the other hand, younger partners may feel overflowed with energy, innocence and joy for life that can stress the other partner. These differences can raise more questions and conflicts between the two even regarding simple issues.
The important thing is for everyone to learn to say what he feels rather what he thinks the other feels.
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Re: age difference in love

Postby M.Helen » 24 Sep 2009, 17:25

Social pressure can affect... :?
When one or both partners are vulnerable to jokes, discrimination or preconceptions of others, this problem can sit like a shadow in one's relationship. The simplest way to handle such situations is to remove things that sit on the surface and to provide sufficient time for others to understand that they are a stable couple.
Beyond the age difference and all other differences, a couple is a couple. ;)
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