Stravinski seems to express former Sovjet citizen´s anger towards Stalinism.
Hardly (but may be). Stravinsky was well-known in USSR. And listened to as well. Actually, I think, he's less popular nowadays within post-Soviet countries than he was in USSR. You know - capitalism, it doesn't enlighten.
I think the only sensible way to cope with this „problem“ is to learn to appreciate and enjoy it. It teaches us (or should teach us) tolerance. My wife is from Slovakia. When we met in her town – not far from the Ukraine frontier - she could only speak Slovak and she had a German vocabulary of maybe 10 words. We have been together now for 6 years and she´s living here in Sweden for the past 3 years. We now mix Slovak, English, German and Swedish in our communication. We have LOTS of misunderstandings! But it doesn´t really matter because we both love life and we have the same will to live - TOGETHER.
Life in Slovakia (Czecholsovakia) was difficult and even WORSE today now that capitalism has stripped the people of their socialist rights. Olga´s network of friends in Slovakia is impressive, probably tempered out of hardship and communist fortitude. For this reason, I believe, she doesn´t compete with me as many western women do. She sees me as an asset, as I do her. Perhaps it is this attitude that is lacking in the world.
Anyhow, you have a good wife.
P.S. German baroque in music is a miracle.

